America's Burqa, pt 1

Why do 59 yr-old men like Marc Maron get to publicly target young females with a specific mental illness, an illness he equates publicly with "good sex?"  A specific mental illness is viewed as an acceptable reason to purposely try and fuck a girl.  Worse still, damaged girls whose fathers/teachers/coaches/neighbors/step-parents/guardians/clergy, etc, have molested, assaulted and/or raped them, are groomed and laughed at by those using that disgusting slur "daddy issues."  Why do these old predators openly have access to young girls who exhibit self-harming and suicidal behavior, girls suffering because of the well-known damage created by some of the worst known childhood abuses imaginable?  Girls with the symptoms of one of the most diparaged of mental illnesses in the current DSM?  Why is this re-exploitation of damaged children allowed to happen over and over, especially at a time when so many "othered" people are finally being seen as worthy of protection?  Instead of being horrified that a child's body and mind has been horribly harmed by childhood sexual exploitation, men like Maron are grinning about "daddy issues," laughing about the way BPD manifests in self-distructive and painful symptoms, salivating for their chance to fuck such at-risk children, the minute these mentally, emotionally,  and physically harmed children hit 18, or 17, or 16, depending on the law alone, because god forbid that such men be forced to experience sexual exploitation while incarcerated.  Children, little kids who have been destroyed by the very type of abuse that robs that child of any ability to develop self-agency or self-preserving knowledge, like how sick and depraved and uncaring men like Maron really are, are left completely unprotected, thrown into the waiting laps of predators.  Society does nothing to stop these men. Instead, Marc Maron is now marketed to children.  People are purposely introducing this well-known sexual predator to children.  Every single little girl being raped this second is in danger of being re-exploited by Marc Maron in just a couple of years.  Think about that. Think of what such a child is now in for, and will be blamed for, because somebody is destroying that child's mind and body right this second.  Some little child is, as you read these words, going through hell.  But her hell is way bigger than the pain she is experiencing this second.  Her hell includes everything Marc Maron and other old predators will continue doing to her from now on, over and over.  These old predators are pulling years-long trains on broken children.  And nobody stops this.  Instead, they blame the broken children.  They say it's the children's choice.  

There is no choice for a sexually exploited child who keeps being re-exploited by men like Maron.  None.  That is why men like Maron get off on this.  They know an unsexualized, relatively normal girl has no interest in gross old men with herpetic unprotected genitalia who draw in 4 or 5 mentally damaged girls at a time.  The Obama daughters are examples of girls who wouldn't look twice at an old predator like Maron. No girl raised in any sort of decent,  relatively normal manner would have anything to do with a man now old enough to be their grandfather, who behaves like Maron.  Men like Maron rely on molested children for gratification, actually get off because there are molested children about to turn "legal."  If society would prosecute and incarcerate more child molesters, and properly help and protect those children who have been molested, then Marc Maron's predatory behavior would be severely curtailed.   He, and predators just like him, are allowed to dehumanize and joke about sexually molested children, are allowed to be marketed as "safe" to such sexualized and damaged children.  All of this is done while ascribing agency to such damaged children the minute that child is 16, or 17, or 18, all while excusing the obvious ongoing predatory behavior that leaves those molested children suicidal, even as the old predator moves on to his next victims.  This is fucking unconscionable.  Yet this is exactly what is happening to molested children, children who are being diagnosed younger and younger with BPD.  A label that attracts predators like Maron, is being placed on the backs of children.

In this country, cis female babies are covered by a kind of reverse "burqa," an absence of protection, a visible sexualization, that is as soul stealing as the actual burqa is for those girls forced to be covered that way in other countries. (I will expand on what I mean by America's reverse burqa in my next post)  These two opposing "coverings" girls are forced to wear are two sides of the same goddam coin: patriarchy.   The result is the same.  Old men, predatory men, are free to destroy very young cis females.  The suicidal ideation, the self-harm, the destruction of young cis female souls, is all the same, burqa, or reverse burqa.  None of this is egalitarian.  This is all patriarchy.  And it destroys lives.