Response to this same tired mansplaining yet again, regarding age

 I have once again been accused of not liking the idea of relationships where there is a significant age difference.  If you want to skip straight to the link for my recent post regarding this subject, here ya go:

https://sighlentz.blogspot.com/2023/06/age-and-gender-identity.html

I have no issue whatsoever with any non-predatory relationship between any adults.  Period.  My specific issue is with much older adults who set out on purpose, with forethought and malice, to sexually exploit mentally and emotionally damaged much younger survivors of childhood sexualization.  Predators are able to lie to, con, re-exploit, steal the lives of, and then abandon these broken young humans, and because these young victims have behaviors often labeled as BPD, Bi-polar, etc, the very behaviors their childhood sexual trauma created, these old predators can place all of the blame on their damaged victims, and the victims are left in much worse condition when the predators are done.

These predators come in every gender identity, and re-exploit broken youth from every gender identity.  In our active patriarchy, it does tend to be older men who routinely seek out damaged little girls who suffer from horrible symptoms such men cruelly refer to with that still-acceptable slur, "daddy issues."  These old predators cling to that slur and other well known perv phrases, as strongly as other assholes cling to racial and transphobic slurs, sharing the same sick grins that racists often share when throwing around their preferred slurs. 

My paternal grandmother was older than my grandfather, and my maternal grandfather was older than my grandmother.   Their relationships were based on the ideas of love and family and life-sharing.  I know couples with age differences who are in non-predatory relationships.  None of the partners in any of those relationships habitually set out to compulsively groom and target and harm very young damaged BPD sufferers who experienced the trauma of CSA.

Only in patriarchies are adult men taught to see afab children as sexual. There is a reason all adult men who start talking about fucking young girls have that recognizable lecherous leer they all wear. They know what they are speaking of is not normal or decent. Men in a patriarchy have been raised to believe they have an actual birthright to fuck children. Men get away with sexually exploiting little girls in this society, and it continues to occur, regardless of whatever new feminism wave may be washing across the country. 

Please do not try and snow me with bs about it being "natural" for old men to fuck little girls.  That is straight outta the patriarchy handbook.  Nature starts to shut down old dicks somewhere around the same time ovaries stop releasing as many eggs. Human patriarchal societies are not at all natural.  Patriarchy encourages the rape of little girls, because that child can be lied to and controlled, if they are sexualized young enough.  Any claim that physical sensation correlates to age is not based on physiology in the least.  There is no physical truth to back up that perverted belief.  That is a foundational tenet of the patriarchy. Those sick fuckers who take that tenet to its extreme by raping the youngest of children, are creating fissures and perforations, which are horrendously damaging, painful, and scarring for the victims, while that sick fucker could get the exact same physical sensation fucking a bucket of offal.  The age myth is only in the mind of sick men.  Patriarchy has created monsters out of such men. 

Hope this answers the latest guys telling me about myself.